Cast of Characters:
Me
DH: my husband
FIL: my late first husband
OSD: older stepdaughter
NGSOBSIL: OSD's husband, no good son of a bitch son in law
YSD: younger stepdaughter
TLG: YSD's son
DS: my son
DOD: my older daughter
DYD: my younger daughter
GS1-3: my grandsons in another state
DGD: my granddaughter, in another state
